How To Build a Life You Don’t Need a Vacation From in 2017

The heart of human excellence often begins to beat when you discover a pursuit that absorbs you, frees you, challenges you, and gives you a sense of meaning, joy and passion.” Unknown

Can you find anything more important to you than to become Absolutely Involve in building a life that’s a reflection of what allows you and your family to BE joyful, loving, healthy, giving, prosperous and live purposeful? 

In other words… A life you don’t need vacation from?

If you agree with me, then I suggest you print this post because I am going to give you, as my 2017 gift to you and your family, TOP valuable information on ‘how to’ reveal the awareness and develop the clarity you will need in order to BE that kind of person who can make that happen. Not only for you and your partner, but this is the most effective way to directly impact the younger generations, so they can experience and build a better world for all.  That’s the legacy we want to be part of!!!

“When you are inspired by some great purpose, some extraordinary project, all your thoughts break their bonds: Your mind transcends limitations, your consciousness expands in every direction, and you find yourself in a new, great and wonderful world. Dormant forces, faculties and talents become alive, and you discover yourself to be a greater person by far than you ever dreamed yourself to be.” Patanjali

The first thing you need to do is to make the first DECISION! This is not like any other decision you made in the past. This is huge, because it is connected to your life purpose. You have been either avoiding it for whatever reason, or preparing for it. Either way this is the perfect time.

Then it’s time to sit with your whole family and explain to them how important this is. Be honest and tell them in your own words that you love them and a big part of loving people to the degree that you are committed to do, is to be willing to learn how to’ support them in becoming the unique person they are and in developing the awareness to build their life as a reflection of what matters most to them, just like you are doing!

Does that sound inspiring and amazing to you? And yet, not many people get to do it. Don’t ask me why, because when you are able to clearly put all things in perspective, learning how to live a life of no regrets… is really not as complicated as we’ve been lead to believe. What it requires is CLARITY! Clarity to see what most people are missing. I’m not any different than you, or anyone else. I just know and do daily what allows me to BE the person who continues to have the clarity to choose different. 

With that said, it’s time to get clear about what makes you feel alive from the inside out, and right down as many details as possible. Details are very necessary and important. Lets call that Your Vision. (Tip: I recommend meditation as a way to slow down the mind and be able to “feel” your heart desires.)

You really need a vision so you can get intuitively connected with it immediately. Don’t wait too long, because the longer you wait and think about it, the farther your mind pushes it away. Let me clarify this; the mind is a tremendous, and powerful dimension within who you are, (Intellectual), but only when use properly. When you don’t, it will unfortunately make your life so much harder than it’s meant to be. That’s why what I am about to share with you, is NOT about what you need to do, or have, is about who you need to BE. Being involve all seven dimensions of your intelligence. 

By now you probably have a good indication that I have been where you are now and have very valuable information to share with you. Therefore I feel comfortable telling you that it’s extremely and strategically necessary you give this information the tremendous amount of ATTENTION that it requires. The fact that you’re reading this post is is not an accident. And one thing you don’t want to do, is sabotage this great opportunity. By giving it the attention it deserves, you will begin activating dormant force #1 Interest, within who you are. Like Patanjali said in the previous quote, he realized over many centuries ago, these dormant forces have the resources you will need to be a greater person by far than you ever dreamed yourself to be.

Lets get very clear about your next step. Understanding who you need to BE, is the key and what makes this information so different and valuable! This is a journey with no return, and no backup plans.

Once you commit to it, you will begin to see doors when they open for you. Possibilities and opportunities will reveal themselves and you will Intuitively feel what your next step is.  (That’s dormant force #2.) Why does it need to be this way? Because the life within you operates thru Congruency. ( That’s dormant force #3).

The strategy as you take on this new way of living is to realize, claim and celebrate everything about your day to day experiences, because you are intentionally BEING the person willing to be accountable and grow. Now, if you are in a relationship, and the other person is as willing as you are to transform yourself into a new person, then that’s the best scenario ever. Why? There is no greater catalyst for such transformation than romantic relationships for numerous reasons, but unfortunately I can’t get into it here. That’s not what this post is about. (BTW, Transformation, is dormant force #4).

Let me better explain what I just said. The key factor to any transformation is Self Accountability. Whether you are doing it by yourself or with another person, it comes down to you individually. Which means that this is the day you can BE responsible for your own happiness. No excuses, no one to blame, and no one who can do it for you either. The greatest thing about that is nothing can go wrong when you stick to this plan. Because the only thing you have full control in this life is yourSelf.

Please listen to this next thing carefully. We all know that our minds are programed and conditioned in a certain way, so it’s critical that you know exactly what to do to transcend these things as they show up. Everyone is different, but they will happen whether you like it or not. This is no big deal. If you want the results we are talking about, this part you will have to do no matter what. This is your life and the wellbeing of your family, so it’s worth transcending them, instead of having to deal with the consequences.

“You have to leave the city of your comfort and go into the wilderness of your intuition. What you’ll discover will be wonderful. What you’ll discover is yourself.” Alan Alda

What I’m about to explain to you now in just a few lines, it usually requires some deeper conversations, but I am going to give it a great shot. We all have developed certain identities and these identities from years and years of activation, have organically developed a set of instructions with them. Just like a virus that gets into your body and we know exactly what it would do next and how long before it happens. The same way these identities get activated unconsciously, and once that happens, they have a life of their own. It’s so predictable, it’s not even funny. If you don’t believe me, ask former US president Bill Clinton? This is very important to understand because in order to do this you will need to reset the filters within your Reticular Activating System,(RAS) and remap your reality. 

Since I don’t know your identities individually, what I will offer you at this point is a way to withdraw energy from these compulsive, repetitive patterns, into your Consciousness. In other words, develop the ability to remain conscious about the intelligence withIN who you are, and around you, as often as you can. The longer you do this, the longer you connect to your 7 inner dimensions of intelligence. And from that intelligence is where the clarity will come from.

A good analogy for this is that when you have a dark room in your house, you don’t try to do something with the darkness, instead you bring light to it and the darkness disappears. How this relates to what I am talking about is that you don’t give attention to these identities by resisting, judging, putting down or doing anything else that’s focused on them. Instead you focus your attention on bringing your awareness to what it feels like to BE… Self Aware!!!

(If this sounds hard to do, that’s one of your False Identities doing what it’s programmed to do. You can call this one… The Persistent Skeptical. Get it? A great way to detach from these identities is to increase your awareness of who they are and how they have been limiting your Life. )

This is a very powerful way to start your new Vacation Life in this new year. New things will unfold daily. As they come up, you will need to make some adjustments, perhaps let go of a few things and in some cases it may require that you start from scratch. But by living this way you will directly impact your ability to expand your awareness of what you’re capable of, and then that will inspire you naturally to continue exploring and realizing your tremendous unlimited capacity. All of these combined will activate the final force within you, the force of Conviction.

Remember when I told you that life operates thru congruency? Now that you have this transformational information, your attention needs to be allocated in developing the discipline to choose thoughts, feelings, conversations and actions that lift you up in the direction of your vision. Loving and supporting yourself and every member of the family on their unique way is a great start. Realizing that life is happening for you, and not to you is another. And developing gratitude for the grandiosity of life in and around you is definitely a big one. 

Here is a quick summary: What you are doing here is activating forces within who you are so you can naturally have greater clarity. As you develop greater clarity, making different choices become way easier. Once you make these choices, you will expand your awareness of what you are capable of. And by having such experiences, you will embody the realization that gives birth to conviction. This Clarity only comes from BEING, never from doing or having anything. There is nothing wrong with those things per se, but they will never give you what deep inside you’re seeking. 

I really want to wish you the best in 2017!!! I know what you are about to do is by far the greatest adventure ever! I value and appreciate the fact that you have allowed me to be part of it, and if you are interested in making sure you get the greatest results in the shortest amount of time… I usually open my schedule to allow a certain amount of committed, individual clients during this time of the year. Otherwise, our Thriving Code program is the way to go!!!

Love and appreciation,


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