Qué pasaría si tus padres te dicen que ellos han estado grabando toda tu vida hasta este momento y que te quieren regalar todas estas grabaciones para que puedas ver lo tu quieras? Antes de seguir leyendo, te invito a que tomes unos minutos para que evalues bien esta proposición. Imaginate que valor tendría para Tí, a este punto de tu vida, ver cuales fueron las experiencias de tu infancia que mas impactaron tu imagen de Tí misma(o).

Eso sería fabuloso. No crees? Yo personalmente entiendo que si, pero la pregunta es… Por Qué? Probablemente tambíen te estas preguntando, “De que me sirve despues de tantos años?. La contestación no es lo que tiene el gran valor, sino lo que puedes hacer de este momento en adelante con esta información. Dejame explicarte brevemente.

De niños vimos a las personas que nos rodeaban, incluyendo a nuestros padres, completamente diferente a lo que ellos eran en relidad por que nuestros celebros no estaban completamente desarrollados en ese entonce. Mas importante, creamos nuestra imagen propia y creencias fundamentales de la vida de acuerdo a nuestra interpretación de como ellos reaccionaron a nosotros y al mundo que nos rodeaba. Una vez que llegamos a la adolocencia, NO ES POSIBLE ver al mundo de la misma forma que lo hicimos cuando niños y como resultado minimizamos nuestras experiencias.

La buena noticia es que con cierta ayuda podemos revelar lo suficiente, usando las situaciones corrientes de nuestras vidas, y de está manera inmediatamente comenzar el nuevo proceso de transceder estas limitaciones usando La Ley de Transmutación Perpetua de la Energía.

Esto nos lleva de nuevo a la misma pregunta… Por Qué? Pero antes de contestar esta pregunta, Yo creo que puede ser muy beneficioso ofrecerles un ejemplo rápido de lo que estoy explicando.

Ejemplo: (Por razones de confidencialidad el nombre de mi clienta no es real)

Karla: Estoy cansada de estar con hombres que se aprovechan de Mí.

Yo: Cuantas veces has tenido esta experiencia?

Karla: Desde que yo recuerde siempre me han tocado este tipo de hombres. Pero ya no puedo mas. Este es mi tercer divorcio.

Yo: Cual tu crees que es la causa?

Karla: Que yo soy muy buena y confío en todo el mundo.

Yo: Eso suena como los efectos. Cual tu crees que es la razón primordial?

Karla: La verdad es que Yo no se por que atraígo hombres que no me saben valorar.

Yo: Desafortunadamente eso es otro efecto. Necesitamos encontrar la causa con el proposito de crear una creencia cierta y un patrón mental correcto para que puedas remplazar lo que origina y permite este tipo de relaciones en tu vida.

Karla: Dejame decirte lo que pasa. Yo soy el tipo de mujer que me entrego completamente cuando estoy en una relación. Y con todo y eso, siempre termino siendo yo la que me siento como que no valgo nada. Ya estoy cansada. Mejor prefiero estár sola.

Como puedes ver en este ejemplo, la mayoría de las veces es casi imposible ver la causa en nosotros mismos y es por eso que seguimos repitiendo las mismas experiencias en nuestras vidas. En poco tiempo Karla pudo darse cuenta que a temprana edad, (debo mencionar que no fue necesario identificar cuando, ni como), ella creo una creencia falsa de que ella no se merecía ser amada y por lo tanto esto seguía afectando todos los aspectos de su vida.

En su trabajo, familia, amistades, etc. Su imagen propia inconcientemente estaba dirigiendo un sinumero de dinámicas que desafortunadamente estaban co-creando lo opuesto a lo que ella deseaba. Por otro lado estaban reinforzando su interpretación de niña. Lo triste es que su familia y amistades le impedían salir hacia adelante por que para ellos Karla era la víctima y alomejor con un poco mas de suerte se podía encontrar un buen hombre.

En mi experiencia trabajando con clientes, no es necesario revivir el drama(dolor) de lo que pasó en nuestra infancia. Esto es solamente 10% del proceso. El 90% está en como Re-Evaluar, Re-Conectar y Re-Cordarnos de nuestro Poder Interno.

En conclusión, cual es la contestación de la pregunta… Por Qué? “Por que no es lo que Tu sabes, sino lo que haces con lo que tu sabes lo que hace la diferencia! “

Con mucho amor,

Darsana

Mis padres me eseñaron que… A mi me dijeron que… Yo aprendí que… La Biblia dice que…

Cuando se trata de interpretaciones? Todos tenemos la capacidad de hacerlo. Por lo tanto es obvio que cuando estamos buscando la razón por la cual tantas personas están viviendo vidas limitadas y experiencias difíciles, tenemos mas interpretaciones de lo que podemos hacer con ellas.

Obviamente para esos de ustedes que conocen de mi trabajo y para los que por primera vez lo están haciendo, mis intenciones son NUNCA de hablar de lo que NO está funcionando. Mi experiencia es que si queremos cambiar algo en nuestras vidas, tenemos que poner TODA la ATENCION en los Principios que funcionan y no en el DRAMA de estas situaciones .

Tampoco creo que por que yo digo algo que me ha resultado a Mí, quiere decir que Tú debes de creerlo. Mi sugerencia es que lo apliques por suficiente tiempo y con suficiente dedicación para que puedas llegar a tu propia conclusión y que puedas tomar una decisión mas beneficiosa.

Lo que yo ofrezco es que… “Existe Una Manera Diferente”. Que quiero decir con esto? Es obvio para Mí que existe solamente una Fuente Infinita de Vida que NO es una persona. Con el proposito de ayudarte a eliminar cualquier reacción conciente o inconciente acerca de lo que estoy ofreciendote, yo voy a llamar a esto FUENTE INFINITA!

Esta Fuente Infinita constantemente sigue expresandose a Sí misma por medio de todo, y por lo tanto eso me incluye a Mí. Esta Fuente tiene unas cualidades que son fácil de ver en todos los componentes del Universo y esto me indica que mientras mas frecuentemente puedo yo reconocer y expresar estas cualidades, en todos los aspectos de mi vida, eso determina no tan solamente la calidad de experiencias que yo tengo y la capacidad de dirigir el poder de esta Fuente en Mí para vivir una vida extraordinaria, pero también la capacidad de entender las cosas más claramente. Mientras más consistentemente yo hago esto, mas entusiasmado me siento y más facil es de vivir mi vida en paz, indiferentemente de las cosas que están pasando alrededor mio.

Suena sencillo? Espero que si sea tambien para Tí. En realidad no existe mucho que nosotros como seres humanos tenemos que hacer. Si lo analizas, puedes darte cuenta que en realidad lo que necesitamos hacer, indiferentemente de nuestra edad cronológica, es regresar a vivir la vida como cuando eramos niños. El Poder de esta Fuente Infinita lo hace todo, pero la clave es que únicamente lo puede hacer por medio de cada persona individualmente. Con esta Fuente, todo es Posible. Sin esta Fuente, nos complicamos la vida por que estamos operando de una forma finita y limitada. Es importante mencionar que nunca podemos estar desconectados completamente de esta Fuente por que es Infinita; Infinita quiere decir que lo incluye todo.

Recuerdate que todos tenemos interpretaciones y que estas interpretaciones son influenciadas por la interpretaciones de otros y esos fueron influenciados por las interpretaciones de otros. Los libros que usan muchas personas son las interpretaciones en escrito del mismo circulo de lo que te estoy presentando para que consideres. Todos los libros son interpretaciones de personas acerca de lo que ellos interpretan de esta Fuente y la mayoría del tiempo han sido traducidos tantas veces que quien sabe lo que estamos interpretando.

Para Mí tiene mas valor encontrar ‘Una Manera Diferente’ que funcione y me permita conseguir mi mayor potencial humano y espiritual, que usar la interpretaciones de otros por que supuestamente eso es lo que debo de hacer, aunque no me sirva de mucho. Al fín al cabo, lo único que yo tengo que hacer es pensar, sentir y actuar de acuerdos a las cualidades de esta Fuente Infinita y lo demás viene por añadidura!

Con mucho amor,
Darsana

Lesson 2 – You are always connected, the question is to WHAT?

I once heard someone say that we are the average of the five people that we spend the most time with. I also remembered my mother telling me when I was a kid, “Dime con quien andas, y te dire quien tu eres”. But relax, I am just sharing these two propositions with the intention to get your attention because I believe that what I am about to share has the potential to radically change the direction of your life!

If you take any creek or river and block the flow of water running through it, it will only be a matter of time before it will become stagnate and eventually it will dry out. Or you could dig a trench and connect it to another source of water. Like a sewer line and although it will continue to flow, the quality of the water would be directly affected by what is connected to it.

Pretty much this is the same thing that I am referring to when I previously wrote, “You need to understand that we live in a world in which we are constantly bombarded by information that DOES NOT support our true potential, so it is extremely important to develop a simple approach to life that supports us being connected and moving in the direction we want 24/7.” 

This statement is not about making judgements or putting anyone down. This is about being able to do something with what you know, otherwise, what’s the point of knowing? “Energy flows where attention goes.” For years I have been telling people that within this simple quote, is the secret to revealing the awareness required to directly alter the quality of our lives! This simple statement alone, that easily describes the teachings of great minds, like the carpenter of Galilee, if understood correctly, can be used strategically to get rid of diseases, economic depression and many, if not all, of the issues we currently face in our society.

But first we must recognize that there is an order to everything and that we must follow this order when attempting to get different results. The first step is to come in terms with the realization that our lives are truly a reflection of what lays within the roots of our consciousness. This is extremely important because we can pause briefly and recognize that we are not the current conditions and therefore, we must focus our attention and get emotionally connected to the real truth! In another words, the challenges or conditions in our lives are essential because they give us an opportunity to reconnect and change from the inside out! How else can we ever know what’s hidden within our subconscious mind? (As you can see this is not a bad thing and changing your perception about it, can only benefit you.)

Now the BIG question is… how do we re-direct without paying attention to what is directing? Before I give you the answer I recommend that you give a good amount of attention to analyze this question, and I strongly suggest that you follow through with at least one action, once you finish reading this article. Reading this information at least once daily for some time, will definitely help you to reveal greater understanding of it.

1. You learn how to train your mind to only entertain and use the information that supports your understanding that everything is possible when the law of mind is applied correctly. Whenever you become aware that you are doing the opposite, you simply let it go and reconnect! Remember what I wrote in Lesson 1 – We are all uniquely different, so no one knows what it will take for you to develop this mental pattern, but I can tell you that it only takes 21 consecutive days for your brain to develop a new neuro pathway. So get going!

2. You allow and release your natural feeling of JOY to be the determining factor in all your affairs and make a commitment to only do the things that bring JOY into your life. And even when you are participating in things that don’t make you feel joy, but you obviously believe you must do them anyway, consciously chose to be joyful about the fact that you are aware of it! Eventually something will unfold and you will no longer be able to do it or the condition will naturally change!

3. You consciously pay attention to your relationship with the Source of Life within you and use your beliefs to direct this intelligence within you to give form to your reality. I know that’s a mouth full. Let me say it differently. Regardless of your conscious or unconscious beliefs about a power greater than yourself, it is accurate to say that we all can agree that there is an intelligence within all life, this includes you, wanting to continue to move towards more life. For example, when a person gets a cut or weeds growing in the wild – life is moving towards a certain direction, whether you and I want it to or not. Can you agree to that? Good! The difference here is that it recognizes when you are congruent and it responds toward the direction you give it, rather than letting it move in any other direction. (Be aware that sometimes it may not look like what you have in mind, but it always responds because it is impersonal; that’s the law.)

I know what you may be thinking… it’s the same thing people have been asking me for a long time, “If it is so simple, why are so many people suffering and struggling with their lives?” This is what I have noticed… people are constantly presented with information that is NOT accurate. This information is only the interpretations of many past generations and because people don’t use their birth right to self discover, part of their  brain (The Deletion Filters) plays tricks on them by only allowing information into their awareness that supports what they believe. Consequently they continue to give form to life with the same mold. Some people may call this denial, some others may call it convenience. I have studied this for many years and I rather called it IGNORANCIA.

The results are that we are surrounded by a society in which drama, disease and lack is  used to attract people who have become accustomed to fear. Some that have some knowledge, used as power to keep others under their control. Most movies, TV, music and even peoples conversations are supported by the desire to be part of the majority, even at the high price of giving away your birth rights! I normally don’t write about negativity, but sometimes we need to put things into perspective.The good news is that you are always connected, the question is to WHAT?

Love and appreciaton,

Darsana

Lesson 1 – You Are Uniquely Different

Do you really understand what it means that we are all uniquely different? Have you ever considered how complex you are and to recognize your relationship with life? Do you take time daily to analyze that in one way or another everything has a direct impact on the quality of your experiences? I have been on this journey for over 22 years, and I can honestly tell you that not once have I worked with two different people that react the same way. Neither could I imagine anyone suggesting that taking a cookie cutter approach to overcome anyone’s challenges, regardless of how small you think they may be, could possibly be the best way to do it. But I can tell you one thing. The human potential is by far the most advanced and sophisticated force in the Universe and when certain things fall into place, the transformation happens quicker than what most people have been led to believe.

When talking with people, whether they are clients or not, I am always interested in the congruency between what they believe and how it manifests in their lives. Based on my experience people don’t often think about this correlation, unless they are confronted with some type of challenge. And even then, the deletion filters in our conscious mind play a trick on us, by leading us only to see those things that support what we want to believe as being the truth at that particular moment. It is so much easier for somebody else to see our mental patterns and habits because they are not emotionally, and in many cases, unconsciously connected to them. The question that often comes up is, “Why should I believe what somebody else is telling me, if they are doing the same thing that I am doing?” And I think this is a valid question and that’s why I recommend that everyone seriously consider who they are getting advice from. In another words, I don’t ask my plastic surgeon neighbor how to deal with my self esteem issues because I may end up with a nose job! Get my point?

I also noticed that most people don’t grasp the depth of their existence. How things like the food they eat or how much sleep they get every night, makes a significant impact in their ability to think clearly. Quite often I have witnessed a tremendous difference in people’s lives just by tweaking their diets and/or making some changes in their schedules. Now imagine how surprised they look when I start asking questions about their surroundings. How cold is it where you live? How much sunlight are you exposed to? Or how much nature (or lack of) is around you? There is no secret as to why more people experience depression in cities like Seattle, Washington. This is all part of your uniqueness, and I am only scratching the surface of the many layers when it comes to what’s unique about you and the things that play a role in your ability to deal with life challenges and consequently, your ability to alter the quality of your day to day experiences.

Now lets move into what James Allen in his book, ‘As a Man Thinketh’, refers to when he said, “All that man achieves and that he fails to achieve is the direct results of his own thoughts. His condition is his own, and not another mans. His suffering and his happiness are evolved from within. As he thinks, so he is; as he continues to think, so he remains.” Although I wish Mr. Allen would have used female adjectives through his writing, I do admire the insights he shares. Or maybe he just recognized women as being more intelligent that men and didn’t think it all applied to them as well. LOL!

Anyway, second by second we are reacting or responding to our experiences in a way that either helps us build the life we desire or the nightmare we fear. I know it’s not easy, but neither is it to waste our days away. And it is not like it gets easier with time, if anything, it gets even harder. The truth is that everyone of us react uniquely different to the feelings, ideas, and the consequences of our actions. All of these things require examination before making significant progress. When dealing with clients I have to really spend time with them to get an idea of how aware they are, and most importantly, how willing they are to recognize their unique relationship with life.

I also know by my own experience that it is never fun to hear people say things like, “Your outer world, is a reflection of what’s going on inside you”, specially if you are dealing with some serious challenges. But you can change your perception and get excited because if it wasn’t for these life challenges, we would all be living in the dark. This is part of life and what makes us grow and evolve to the level that we are willing to take on. It’s one thing to say “I know” and quite another to do something with what you know!

Love and appreciation,

Darsana

Although I completely understand that we all see things differently, if I can get anyone to think a little bit more about the choices they are constantly making, then it is all worth it. The world needs more people who think for themselves. And although that’s part of the intention as to why I am writing this article, I am going to keep it simple by enjoying the opportunity and making sure that I don’t get to caught up in whether or not you like or agree with what I am saying.

For many years I have been paying attention to the relationship between what’s going on with me personally and the quality of my experiences. For that reason I have been able to make some gigantic changes, which includes everything I do from the moment I get up every morning. Today I can honestly say that simplicity plays a big role in my lifestyle. Plus I don’t complicate my life anymore by worrying about what others may think or say about me, or if they want to be my Facebook friend or not.

I also want to let you know that these insights about simplicity are not only from my own experiences, but from clients and personal relationships as well. The results are very similar. Regardless, most people say that they want certain things in their lives, but their actions and the choices they make, conscious or unconscious, are not congruent with what they are saying. For the most part, I believe that what they want is very simple, but how they go about it, complicates their lives and those around them.

Let me just share a few examples for the benefit of clarity. People who say that they don’t like having to do anything they don’t want to do and once I start talking to them, their lives are full of commitments and routines. Or people who say that there is nothing more important to them than their children. And when I take a closer look, the amount of quality time they spend with their children daily is less than one hour, if even that. So the question is, why do they complicate their lives?

Although it may sound like a cliche, when I look around all I see is Life Energy expressing itself through everything. And whether or not I completely understand how it all works, it doesn’t really matter. I know that no matter what I am doing, if I am doing it with JOY, things have a way of always falling into place. I also noticed that whenever I am more loving and consciously appreciate everything in and around me, the quality of my experiences significantly improve. I focus on what brings more life to all and I only participate in things that support the beauty of all humanity, animals and nature EQUALLY. I truly believe this type of simplicity is the key to why I naturally live my life with full enthusiasm, gratitude and contentment.

I would like to end by sharing with you what I am now using as the most tangible way to bring simplicity into my life. “Say what you mean, and mean what you say”. And if you are thinking, “Yeah, but…”, I would like for you to then question why are you even having that thought? Think about it. For some reason you had the need to defend yourself, justify your position or make something O.K., when the truth is that you are just reading an article that grabbed your attention. Unless you think that you may have attracted this for a bigger reason. That’s for you to decide!

Anyway, the truth is that most people don’t pay attention to what they think or say and consequently do the things they do. And even if you bring things to their attention, it seems as though you are talking a foreign language because the choices they are making is limiting their ability to see things differently.

‘The Secret is Simplicity’ and Order is the First Law of the Universe. My suggestion is that before you continue with your life the way it is, that you re-evaluate your priorities and consciously decide if they are congruent with what you say is important or not! If at the end of the day you have no regrets, then you are making great progress. Just be honest with yourself, otherwise you will regret it later!

Love and appreciation,

Darsana

More than ever before we live in a time in which most people, in one way or another, have the technology and the ability to get their hands on some type of personal growth material and no cost. Social media and other internet sites, community gatherings, and churches, are just some of the places where people are coming together and telling each other what they think is the best way to fix whatever it is they think is going on with their lives. As usual, we all have friends or family members that are always making some type of recommendation about how they think we should handle our “issues”.

I also noticed last year while traveling the nation that every where we visited, the challenge was not lack of knowledge, it’s more a lack of awareness. While reading books or attending seminars, can be helpful, that is only the gathering of knowledge. Knowledge is like a seed that when it’s planted in a fertile soil can do wonders, but in many cases, it can actually be part of the reason why people feel stuck or unable to overcome life situations or conditions.

Regardless, I think the fact that we now feel more comfortable talking about these things openly is definitely a sign of progression. On the other hand, we have to be very careful because every person is different and there are MANY things that need strong consideration when dealing with people’s lives.

So the question that I have been evaluating is… Why is it that although many people are familiar with some of the tools or concepts, they don’t seem to be using them to improve the quality of their lives? Why are so many people settling, giving up or becoming addicted to dysfunctional behaviors or vices?

Before I answer that, let me just say that after working with such a variety of clients from diverse lifestyles, I understand that for the most part we are blind to our own issues because of our own nature, and very seldom because of our own will. In other words, although we all have the greatest capacity within who we are, because of the deletion filters within our conscious mind, we literary NEED a new perspective outside of our own when intending to overcome or achieve certain things in our lives.

With that said, I am going to share with all of you the 3 MOST IMPORTANT ingredients you need to overcome challenges and achieve greatness in your life.

1. Every person is UNIQUELY DIFFERENT so a cookie cutter approach, making assumptions or suggesting about anything is just NOT right. And if you are doing it to yourself, this is just another way of self sabotaging your life.

2. We live in a world in which we are constantly bombarded by information that DOES NOT support our true potential, so we MUST find a new fun and simple approach to life that supports us being connected and moving in the direction we want 24/7.

3. Most people have a lifestyle, driven by old beliefs and fears, that is draining all the energy required to overcome these challenges from the inside out. So in order to step into your greatness, developing a congruency plan, primarily driven by your intuitive desire to enjoy life, will give you a tangible method to follow through with actions that support the direction you want to go, while generating and releasing the life energy necessary to bring clarity, determination and excitement back into your day to day experiences.

There is not one person in this world that does not deserve by birthright to be happy and truly enjoy life. So if by any chance you are in a place where this is not your experience, for God sake reach out and invest in yourself. Even if at this point you feel little hope or believe that things could not get better, I believe they can!

Love and appreciation,

Darsana

“I don’t have an attitude, I have a PURPOSE”.

Hi, my name is Darsana Roldan and welcome to my website. I have an extraordinary life and if I die today, I will be completely satisfied with the choices I have made. I can honestly look myself and my family straight in the eyes and say, “I consistently walk my talk and therefore I have no regrets.” My question to you is… can you say the same? Think about it for a minute.

But the truth is that it wasn’t always like that. I spent the first 27 years of my life trying to get ahead, but always feeling like I was behind. Going through the journey of overcoming alcoholism and drug addiction over 23 years ago changed my interpretation of what adversities represent and pushed me into Recycling My Human Potential. Through that initial journey, I realized that challenges and adversities are just opportunities for greater growth!

I believe that no matter how much money you have, how healthy you are, or how evolved you perceive yourself to be, life continues to bring along many challenges. This is no big deal once you understand the purpose behind it! Why? Because although this is where MOST people struggle and feel stuck, at the same time this is where the answer to their problems exists. How important is this? Extremely important, because it means that with the appropriate guidance, most people can transform their lives in a very short amount of time! You see, ‘True Success’ is a lifestyle and once you learn how to Recycle Your Human Potential, everything has value in it, especially the things that you don’t like.

Whether you are dealing with challenges or having trouble achieving your goals, you can overcome these issues! Is this journey easy? Honestly, it’s different for everyone, but you don’t have to do it alone. After working with thousands of clients throughout my career, counseling, seminars, public speaking, radio, and many other avenues, I have gained many powerful insights. If I had to choose one to share with you at this point is that,  ”It’s not what you know, is what you do with what you know that makes a difference”.

But the answer is NOT to try harder. The truth is that we are all very smart and capable. So WHY is it that some of us are able to live a life of congruency. Nine out of ten people I talk too tell me that they know what’s important for them, but the choices they make moment by moment, conscious or unconscious, do NOT reflect the same thing.

The biggest problem I see when working with clients is that although MOST of them truly have the desire to live a certain type of life, they have very little awareness on how to do it. On top of that, MOST people believe that although human behavior is probably the most complex phenomena ever, that somehow we are supposed to figure it all out without any help. How crazy is that? For anything else is completely acceptable to hire a particular individual or organization, but when it comes to overcoming life challenges and achieving our personal goals, the taboos are endless!

Life Itself is our MOST precious gift EVER! Everything that you have ever experienced and will ever experience is because you are ALIVE! And the truth is that all of us only have a certain amount of time to make the best of it. So you would think that most people would be having a blast everyday and only doing things that support them being happy, healthy and enjoying an abundant life; but they are not!  I have been doing this for a long time and I know that  in order for me to really help you, we have to take a close look at your whole entire life and you have to learn how to live consciously all over again.

Think about it! Do you really understand what it means that we are all uniquely different? Have you ever considered how complex you are and to recognize your relationship with life? Do you take time daily to analyze that in one way or another everything has a direct impact on the quality of your experiences? I can honestly tell you that not once have I worked with two different people that react the same way to anything.

But I can tell you one thing. The human potential is by far the most advanced and sophisticated force in the Universe and when certain things fall into place, the transformation happens quicker than what most people have been led to believe. My suggestion is that you call me and set up a confidential consultation immediately, before the deletion filters in your mind talk you out of it. I can guarantee you that once we get to talk, you will know my teaching comes from the way I live my life!

Como latino yo me siento agradecido de la influencia de mi origen y es por eso que quiero compartir mis conocimientos  y experiencias a un nivel mundial con toda persona de habla hispana. Despues de haber trabajado con miles de personas durante los ultimos 20 años, yo me siento completamente seguro de poder traer informacion de valor a tu vida. Por lo tanto estoy usando estos servicios con el propósito de empezar una relación mutua contigo celebrando nuestras semejanzas y respectando las diferencias.

El ser humano fue creado para tener éxito en todos los aspectos de su vida, indiferentemente de raza, nacionalidad, sexo, o cualquier otro tipo de diversidad. Cada persona tiene como derecho al nacer poderosas facultades mentales que les permite utilizar, en colaboración con las leyes Universales, una cantidad infinita de recursos. Segun van cambiando los tiempos es necesario aprovechar los descubrimientos en todos los aspectos de nuestras vidas y a la misma vez, cultivar las caracteristicas y valores que forman nuestra individualidad.

El error que yo he encontrado y ayudado a miles de personas a superar , es el mal entendimiento de que para poder seguir identificarnos con nuestras familias o culturas, es necesario no aceptar conocimientos y factores esenciales para el desarrollo de nuestra alma y la mejora de nuestras vidas. Lo mas impactante para cualquier persona, indiferente de su origen, edad, sexo o cualquier otra forma de diversidad, es sobrepasar las limitaciones de la ignorancia. Mientras mas aprendemos y ponemos en practica estos conocimientos que fortalezcan el desarrollo espiritual, mayor sera la calidad de vida que experimentamos y el impacto positivo que tenemos en nuestra persona, familia y cultura.

Por eso te invito a que recibas toda la información posible para que consigas exito en todos los aspectos de tu vida y de esa forma puedas tener un impacto mas grande en la evolucion del ser humano. Los cambios son necesarios, pero tu no dejas de ser quien Tu Eres!

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One of my favorite quotes and the inspiration for this blog is by Buddha… “There is nothing so disobedient as an undisciplined mind, and there is nothing so obedient as a disciplined mind.” After spending the last two years with my precious family deeply immersed in reevaluating, reminding and reconnecting myself with Life Itself, I am walking away with what I believe is my greatest contribution to Consciousness… a disciplined mind. If you want to help the world, you must help yourself first!

At times this journey became so fulfilling that I contemplated the idea of moving with my family to Costa Rica and spend the rest of my life meditating and being as close as possible to nature. On the other hand while writing this blog I debated if I should share with you that at times it also felt like I was dying. I decided that the only thing I have to share is that in order to have an extraordinary life, you must dissolve the illusion of fear.

So if you are wondering why I am writing about this journey, if I don’t want to share all the details? It is because it is NOT important. Drama is humanities’ biggest challenge and in order to dissolve it, we must realize that it is nothing wanting to be something. In order to lift humanity, animals and the planet to its original pattern, we must abandon talking about the drama, contemplating it and believing that it is through contrast that we regain our appreciation for the gift of Life.

As Wallace D. Wattles said, “The moment you permit your mind to dwell with dissatisfaction upon things as they are, you begin to lose ground. You fix attention upon the common, the ordinary, the poor, and the squalid and mean; and your mind takes the the form of these things.”

What’s important to me at this moment is that I have been appointed through my work, “Progressing Change through Beauty, Wisdom and Success” and through our Foundation Empowering Young People By doing so I get to continue the evolution of my individual Soul in the most harmonious path, while living an extraordinary life. When Einstein said, “What the mind can conceive, It can achieve.” It is obvious to me that he meant a disciplined mind. Happiness, Prosperity, Fulfillment, it is all possible and equally available to everyone once you discipline your mind. Although this is YOUR journey of Self Discovery, you DON’T have to do it alone!

Experience Your Freedom,
Darsana

I was awakened by my precious daughter’s voice, “Daddy, I need to go to the bathroom”. Right after I put her back to sleep and I was quietly laying down next to my beautiful wife, Kalyani, my old time friend/dog decided that it was time to take care of business… if you know what I mean, LOL. While I was outside our RV waiting for him, I was wondering if this was going to be one of those nights that Spirit had something to say to me that couldn’t wait until the morning. I honestly don’t know if it is because in the middle of the night the collective consciousness is most at peace, or just because my mind is calm from sleeping, but whenever I am searching for answers or ideas, 3:00 a.m. seems to be my designated appointment with the Infinite.
I knew that since I had made a gigantic request to Spirit over 3 years ago and I had consistently held on to my side of the deal, that the gestation process was coming to an end. I had convinced myself, which is all I ever need to do. The Universe never withholds anything from me and this time would not be any different. I felt congruent between my heart and the vision I had been having a love affair with.
I quietly reached for my MacBook and began writing. As far as I am concerned, following through with my inspirations is the only option. When you have the awareness that I have to understand the gift of life, dwelling is something you don’t give any possibility to. Otherwise what’s the point of setting intentions if when it’s time to take action, you are not willing to take risks.
Some people may say that God was talking to me. Others will say that the law of Mind in Action was responding to the impressions of my thoughts, feeling and actions. I say, who cares! Life is too precious to wait another day trying to figure the whole thing out.  I have been there and done that before. Your ego feels threatened by your intuition and selects the information that will invalidate what you know. Blah, Blah, Blah!
I say, “Don’t Wait Another Day”! Go after every one of your dreams today! Is this crazy? I don’t think so. Crazy would be not to do so. At the end, what do you have to lose? Well… you may be unhappy, broke and sick. No thank you. I rather discover what’s ahead in my journey, even if it means getting out of my comfort zone!
So if you are wondering what I decided to do? After talking to my precious family we have decided through our Foundation to travel the nation for a whole year inspiring, empowering and educating families of all socio-economic status to up level the quality of their lives, so together we can make a difference in the world for all Creation. That’s right! But this is not about me, this is about you. We all have to have faith and know that our individual souls are leading us to stay connected with our heart’s desires. It actually knows what we need better than we do because we are conditioned to pay attention to things of lower values.
We all have gifts and talents that are waiting to come out because the world needs what we have inside! I am just very fortunate to have the consciousness to understand things that others can’t YET. Pay attention to the signs, they are everywhere!
Love and appreciation,
Darsana

Is It Choice or Is It Destiny?

I remember over 21 years ago driving to work in the morning and right before I lit up a marijuana joint I thought, “There is something wrong with this and at one point I am going to have to face it.” I also remember another time having an affair and as I was leaving her apartment I felt shameful and I knew at that moment that somehow I would have to pay the price for my actions. More recent I remember having to say good night to my children on the phone and I knew at that point that no amount of money was worth missing out on the things I value most in life. The truth is that since I have learned to love and forgive myself, I can probably go on forever, remembering time after time, stories of how at one point in my life I had enough clarity to recognize that I was drifting away from the path, but not necessarily doing anything about it at that particular moment!

But the question is… Was I really choosing to drift away from the path, or was it ALL part of a bigger plan that would eventually lead me to my destiny? Even up to this point, I honestly don’t have the answer to that question. I could tell you that many times while reflecting in silence it is evident to me that everything I have ever gone through has been preparing me for the role that I am now playing. Not only that, it is because of all these experiences that I have become the most magnificent version of me today. I think it is relevant to mention that I have grown the most during the hardest times of the journey, so there must be a reason for the challenges we encounter along the way!

I know that if I google this question, (Is It Choice or Is It Destiny?), I would probably get many answers. But the question is… Do I want someone else’s answers and beliefs or do I want my own? Through my meditation practice I am understanding that our human experience can lead us to believe in many illusions, but Spiritually we always remain as perfect as the Laws of Nature and as Beautiful as the blooming of roses during Spring! This is crucial to me because it means that at any point no matter how far I may drift, I can reconnect with my True Self and find the most harmonious and fulfilling way to the evolution of my individual Soul.

As a Congruency Consultant I often talk to and witness many people who are struggling with situations, circumstances and conditions that are robbing them from the opportunity to experience how magnificent God’s Creation truly is, them included, but unfortunately do nothing about it. Although I have been blessed to see and hear about others who have transformed their lives, I often wonder if there is any way we could change the statistics and significantly increase the amount of people changing their lives and consequently changing the world! Or Maybe I just need to continue expanding my awareness and TRUST that Infinite Intelligence has a Divine Purpose for everything!

After searching for so long for things outside of myself to make me happy and fulfilled, I have found that Infinite Source is really within ME and YOU and there is a part of me that wants everybody else to experience how awesome it is living life this way. Perhaps is because now that I have overcome these obstacles I find myself completely in LOVE with the Divine Presence flowing through everything and everyone. Or maybe it’s just that since I have dissolved the illusion of separation I know that I am ONE with all the Love, Joy, Beauty, Abundance and Harmony in the Universe and therefore I can’t help but to want to release this energy as the most important piece as to why my life ROCKS! So, what about your life… can you choose your destiny? Let me know! I love to learn from you…

Love and appreciation,
Darsana Roldan

Shift Happens!

Have you ever read or heard about synchronicity? Have you ever stopped to think what are the possibilities for things to unfold the way they do every day? All the unlimited things that could have completely changed the outcome of any particular situation in your life? No, I am not tripping, it is exactly the opposite! Over 20 years ago I made a conscious decision to stay away completely from drugs and alcohol to discover myself and how life would be without them. Because of that one decision, my life has continued to CHANGE in ways that I would have never even begun to imagine. Every day is full of infinite possibilities because I have grown from within, enough to understand that the outside world is only a reflection of what is going on inside of me! That as long as I continue to have passion, determination and appreciation for the present moment, not one thing has to change in the world for me to be happy and celebrate the things I value most!

If you are not becoming more interested in what you are reading by now, I suggest you  tie your Self down to the chair and continue reading because this is not about me, this is about YOU. You see, there is no accident to why you have attracted what you are reading and either you can make the decision to take this information to heart and shift the way your life is going, or you can continue doing the same things you have been doing and continue looking for answers in the wrong places. In all honesty, that is actually the way we are programmed to survive by our ancestors, and it’s probably not such a bad idea when you were learning how to walk and talk, but I believe you are ready now to make a conscious choice to unleash the unlimited potential within your True Self, while learning how to gratefully appreciate all the blessings in your life!

Let me just quickly highlight that when we don’t listen to the subtle signs going on in our life, consequently we bring the crazy DRAMA right into it. From there, it can get worst or better, depending on wether or not you choose to be a victim, or reach out and learn that taking risks is what allows us to CHANGE and GROW! After making so many mistakes and making life incredibly hard and painful, I am now experiencing a more loving, prosperous and rewarding way of experiencing life, one day at a time. My heart desire to live a meaningful and purposeful life is what motivated me to create this blog and to activate the power of collaboration to change the World!

When you begin to live life this way, you begin to understand and develop higher levels of awareness that allow you to experience a new reality. All of the sudden life has new meaning and your beliefs, along with your mindset, shift and you are guided to serve others. Prosperity consciousness reveals itself through your passion and purpose and now success is no longer a goal, it is within your Self and it becomes a lifestyle. What others think of you have very little impact on who you are and you express yourself more freely because you are not attached to the outcome.

Remember, it all begins with the conscious choices you make and in order to do that you have to learn how to go within. Part of my life purpose is to inspire, empower and intensify your ability to discover the changes you want to make for the evolution of your individual Soul and for the contribution you add to the shift in Consciousness going on in the world. Together (IGetItMovement) we can Be The Change We Wish To See In The World and shape the vision for younger generations to follow. I believe that One Love, One Wealth and One World is the way things were meant to be and I will do everything I can until the day I die to Be loving, Be Giving and Be Willing to equally celebrate humanity, the animals and the planet!

Love and appreciation,

Darsana

You Have A Choice!

Good for you! You just made a choice to open your self to learning something new or be reminded of something you already know. Regardless, the point is that you are making choices all the time. Now imagine being able to make the right choices most of those times…  Although wrong choices are here just to let you know that you are going away from your path, they are not FUN! Wouldn’t you agree? I personally feel that I have made too many of those choices in this life, and I am done with them. I no longer believe in contrast, I am into consistency these days!

My guess is that you are probably thinking that you already know you have a choice, so what is my point. First lets bring some understanding into this dynamic exchange of energy that we are having. Knowing something doesn’t mean that you understand it and it definitely doesn’t mean you can use it to get the results you want. If you don’t believe me, just pay a great deal of attention to how many times people say, “I know that”, or ‘I heard that before”, but in the next breath or action they show you that they don’t know it, otherwise they would be making a different choice. So knowing is being able to apply it into your life and get the results you want!

Now, back to knowing that you have choices. Let me give you an example, that sometimes works better for me. Imagine that you sitting next to the Dali Lama in a very loud concert. He has some amazing things to say, but you cannot hear what he is saying. That is pretty much what happens when your inner voice, full of wisdom and intuition, is waiting for you to be silent, but since you are making a choice to continue to think and think, you missed your one to one appointment with the Infinite within YOU. But I am going to make the assumption that if you are reading my blog it is because you have a higher level of awareness than most people and you make the conscious choice to quiet your mind every day like I do.

Let’s continue with the same example since the first time it worked so good or at least it did for me, LOL. The music at the concert stopped for the intermission and you got to listen to the Dali Lama for a little while, and of course he gave you some powerful insights. But once the music started you began to listen to it, perhaps you justified having a beer or a glass of wine. Wait, what I am saying? You are reading my blog, so you would NEVER put mind altering drugs into your body temple. I am so sorry, I thought I was writing to another group of brothers and sisters. My apology. Where were we? I know, after listening to the Dali Lama, you started listening to the music and thinking about past memories or perhaps you slipped into an old mind habit of predicting the future, and all of a sudden, what seemed so powerfully insightful, escaped your mind. Oops! The point is that we have to make conscious choices to stop the noise from the outside world, but we also have to develop a discipline to stay connected and take immediate actions, otherwise, well, you know what happens.

Let me finish by adding this final point. The human mind is just a tool by which we co-create our reality. Quickly I want to underline OUR REALITY, because in that statement lies one of the most transcending understanding of human kind. We are co-creators in the Creative Process of Consciousnes and therefore that is why we can CHANGE our reality and the world by making Conscious Choices together. I know that was a mouth full; just take a few minutes and reflect on what that means to your life right now. What can you take responsibility for and make a conscious choice to change right now in your life because you have the power to do it ? Good, I am happy for you!

This is the key, it becomes a conscious choice when we have the ability to MASTER the mental faculties within our unlimited powers. So whatever it takes in your individual case, is what it takes, but you MUST do it! My advice is that you don’t compare yourself with anybody else. Most of the beliefs that are co-creating your reality come from your unconscious mind and only you can change them. We are ALL different in our humanity and for that reason, your journey has different choices than anybody else. The gift is that inherent within your human potential is the Power to CHOOSE and CHANGE!  If you don’t, you are still making a choice, but it is probably not the one you want!

Lets stay connected and support each other in making the choices that co-create the reality for One Love, One Wealth, One World!

Until next time, “Underneath The Illusions, Is The Desire to Be Happy”

Darsana

Latino, You Are Who You Are!

I am convinced that even if I spend another 47 years expanding my awareness starting from where I am now, I would only be scratching the surface of my inherent unlimited potential. I am also quite aware that the world around me hasn’t changed, but it is my inner transformation that has allowed me to create my own reality and see the physical world completely different than what it used to be. Have you ever wondered why me? For years I felt like I was so different than members of my own family, friends and other people that were Latinos like me. I was trapped in the middle of my own inner war because a part of me felt proud for growing up with certain values and interests and another part of me didn’t agree at all with some of the beliefs and misconceptions around me. Among other things, there were too many unanswered questions regarding religion and no one dared to step out of the imaginary boxes within the human mind.

I can’t even begin to explain the invigorating joy that flows through me in every moment because I no longer choose to let ignorance and illusions give form to my reality. By mastering the mental faculties available to me, I have created an awesome life in which the next moment is always pregnant with even greater experiences.

But it was not always like this. For many years I was suffering from self imposed fears and insecurities about who I was and where do I fit. You see at the age of 2 my parents decided to move back to their home, Puerto Rico, and I spent the next 16 years absorbing the energy that became the foundation of my reality. Right after my sophmore year my parents moved to California and I spent my senior year in high school not only struggling with learning a new language and culture, but also fighting the desire to grow and embrace the world I was exposed to, yet debating if by doing so I would loose who I thought I was. For the next 10 years I struggled even more with this dilemma and I used things like alcohol, drugs and sex as a way to hide and survive. I was fighting unseen demons, but they seemed so real to me then.

Like all of us I have a story, and perhaps in the book that I am writing I will get into more details, but for now I want to speak to the 38.8 million Latinos in the USA that could use my experiences as a spring board for the next step they are about to take. No matter what you think, feel, or do with your life, you will ALWAYS be who you are. So if you are Latino, be grateful for what it offers you, but don’t be afraid to change and become a greater expression of God just because unconsciously you don’t want to betray your roots. As a matter of fact, you would benefit tremendously from evaluating the impact that your up-bringing is having on every decision you make. Like my mother would say, “No votes el muchacho con la placenta.” Celebrate the gifts and blessings and let go of the misconceptions and limitations.

Beliefs around religion, alcohol, addictions, male privilege, nutrition, parenting, competition, work, digression of women by sexualizing them, acts of violence against humanity and animals, just to name a few of the unconscious behavioral patterns that were blocking the flow of God Consciousness flowing through me in all my affairs and consequently were robbing me of my own true happiness. I am not more or less Latino than anybody else just because for the last 20 years I have become a different version of me. You see it doesn’t matter how much money you make, your reputation, (el que diran la gente), how popular you think you are, or anything else. How successfully happy you are is a direct result of the awareness, understanding and application around the realization that You are Who You are because you were created in God’s image.

Hasta la proxima vez, “Los Cambios Son Necesarios, Pero No Tienes Que Dejar De Ser Quien Tu Eres”

Darsana

Just Because!

Do you ever wonder why people do the things they do, only to find out later that they were doing it for the wrong reasons? Do you ever tell yourself that you wish you knew then what you know now? The point is that everything is always changing and just because you see things one way now, doesn’t mean that your perception will remain the same, specially if you are like me, someone that loves to live in the present moment but believes that the more you know, the more you realize you don’t know anything!

Just because you are from a younger generation doesn’t mean you have to give in to coolness and give up meaningfulness. Or that you have to use certain clothes or choice of words to give the world a certain image about who you think you are. It doesn’t mean you have to pursue physical goals rather than spiritual growth. Please, don’t tell me that underneath all that stuff, you don’t have the inner desire to love and to be happy, or perhaps to find your life purpose!

Just because you are from an older generation doesn’t mean you have to be stubborn and pretend that you were always the same person you have become. Or that you have it all figured out and therefore there is no possibility for further growth. Come on, times are changing and we are now exposed to more information and discoveries than ever before in the history of mankind, so it would make sense that you open yourself to greater awareness and accept that you don’t know it all.

Just because you are at a point that you think you have things pretty much under control doesn’t mean that things can’t change so quick that your whole world can be flipped upside down. Denial, justification, and even ignorance are choices you make and therefore find yourself stuck in a routine and the convenience of finding new toys to make you feel better about yourself. But you don’t care because you see yourself on top of the world anyway and choose to see and put everybody else down if they are not playing your game.

Just because you are an embodiment of the Spirit you have the right to be authentic and live every moment in passion and be conscious about the vibrations flowing through You. Not only you love your Self, but you feel secure, worthy and confident that you are creating the life of your dreams and that your main objective is to share your talents and gifts with the world as you receive from the Universe all your needs harmoniously. You are convinced that Divine Presence is the ultimate reality and that humanity, the animlas and the planet are within your Consciousness and just because of it, you are making the changes within you, that you wish to see in the World.

Until next time, “Either I don’t get it, or you don’t get it, but it’s time to wake up”

Darsana

“You Must Be The Change You Wish To See in The World”

I often contemplate this quote by Gandhi whenever my mind wants to go into judgement. As I meditate, expand my mind and embrace all the love and abundance that is around me regularly, I am present it with the realization that in order to receive greater level of awareness, I have to bring truth to the things that I don’t like in me and immerse in an environment that represents only the good in everything.

I understand that I have mental faculties that allow me to choose what I think, feel, and the actions I take about any given experience and therefore I have to take responsibility first for the results that are going on with me. I also have learned to accept that there is a Universal process in which changes require an inner transformation, and I enthusiastically open my self to become the new me that can handle such demands. Even though I have made many mistakes while playing this game I call life, I am always humble because no matter how much I have grown, I am just scratching the surface of my human potential; you can’t miss, what you have never experience.

I appreciate the opportunity to utilize this services and your interest on receiving my sincere gift. If anything, it’s my intention to share with you that changes begin within our self first. If you find yourself judging, just forgive yourself, understand that is an ego trick to keep you trap in this illusion, and quickly get connected with Truth.

Until next time, “Underneath The Illusions, Is The Desire to Be Happy”

Darsana

The Game of Life!

Imagine yourself playing a video game in which you have to experience certain things in order to reveal greater awareness to get to the next level. As you go on in the game, you learn that when you have certain experiences, you gain more energy and there are other experiences that make you weaker, therefore you remain at the same level, sometimes you may even fall into lower levels. You choose to be enthusiastic about the game because you are always learning, even the things you don’t want to experience teach you that you are moving away from where you want to be. As you play the game, you take some time in between to calm the mind.

Consequently you develop an understanding of what are the experiences that make you stronger and receive greater awareness, and you move away from the ones that take away your energy and with it the ability to see things clearly. Since you understand that it’s only a game, you place all your attention into having fun. Once you get to a certain level, you realize that by assisting others to experience greater levels, you gain double the energy and the awareness that comes with it. So you find yourself creating a balance between experiencing greater levels and assisting others as well. Finally you reach a level in which you understand that the experiences you are having, you are the one creating them and that by assisting others to increase their awareness, is the only way to create greater ones for yourself.

Although this game has Infinite levels, there is ONE thing that was, is and will forever remain the same. Since everything is energy, You, Others, the EXPERIENCES and everything included in the game, are ONE with WHAT created the game. Maybe the purpose of life is to play and have fun, no matter what you are experiencing. Maybe that is the key that opens the door to discovering your purpose in life. If you knew without a doubt that you are part of THAT which is INFINITE CREATION and therefore, by definition, you inherit within yourself everything you need to create your life to be exactly they way you want it to be… would you be playing and having fun right now?

If you have any other answer than YES, quickly get connected with whatever you believe is your higher power or reach out to people that are having fun living consciously, before you forget how to play completely. Please don’t talk yourself out of reaching out, remember, we are having fun, because we KNOW that in order to continue playing the game, we are here to assist YOU.

Until next time, “Underneath The Illusions, Is The Desire to Be Happy”

Darsana

If You Are Going To Go For It, Why Not Go All The Way?

There is no point in taking any risk if you already know that you want more than what you are shooting for. Whether you say it is too much for you to handle or you call it your comfort zone, the point is… Why would you stop short if you already know you are stopping short? It is one thing to be ignorant, or to be experiencing denial, but to know and not do, is not to know..

Working with clients for over 22 years, I have probably heard just about every story in the world as to why people are not receiving what they want from life. If you look up the word victim in the dictionary, some of their pictures may be right next to it. If you are thinking that what I just said was mean, think twice. You know what mean is to me? To buy into their stories and become part of their drama. I didn’t choose to write this post to be a therapist or a counselor, I have already been there, done that, and moved on.

I am using this part of my blog to honor the authentic part of me that can no longer tiptoe around the issues or sit around and not say anything about the pink elephant in the room. So if you thought you were going to read something different, maybe you want to stick around anyway because there is a reason why you were attracted here in the first place. My intention is to bring truth as I see it, and the rest is not up to me. Sometimes our egos get the best of us and rob us from the joy of just being completely authentic and I did that for far toooooo long.

We all have things we want to say, or do, but once again we conditioned ourselves to believe that the reason we don’t say or do them, is because we don’t want to hurt others. That is a lie wanting to be truth. The least you can do is to own it. In order to transcend our fears, we first need to reveal them. Maybe you want to portray a certain image, or you are attached to what others think of you, or perhaps you have a false sense of security, who knows.  Again, this is not the place for therapy, you are capable of figuring out why you stop yourself short from experiencing the greatest gift anyone can give to them self, the gift of lovingly and passionately living an awesome life.

And by the way, if anyone, whether it’s family, friend or partner that can’t handle you being freaking happy and excited about life, then you have more work to do because your life is a reflection of the Consciousness you have until this moment in time. Which means that you can’t blame the circumstances, conditions or results in your life on someone else because you are completely responsible and you have within your Self the ability to make the necessary changes with of course the correct guidance.

So if you are seriously committed to going for it, don’t let your mind set stop short from the awareness you will need to receive it. The mind is just a tool to master and create the life you want, that it, it only does what it is programmed to do. You are the embodiment of the Spirit of Life. Let me finish with this…. everyone and everything will benefit tremendously if you go all the way, so do it!

Until next time, “Either I don’t get it, or you don’t get it, but it’s time to wake up”

Darsana