Darsana Roldan, Best Selling Author and Top Inspirational Success Coach
Best Selling Author, Life Visionary and Top Inspirational Success Coach
Better MEN is beyond language. It is actually a feeling we have embedded withIN who we are.
Not surprising to me, most highly successful men I talk to tell me that nothing in this world is more important to them than their partner and children, and although they are very good at what they do, this journey of becoming better men presents a bigger challenge to them and one that requires greater awareness and understanding about how to unleash their true potential.
Not only I don’t agree with anything that the world tells us about men when they try to fit all of us in one box, but I am convinced that when a man is able to transcend his threatened ego and better understand his unlimited potential, he becomes a purposeful individual and joyfully serves as a beacon of light for his family, community and the rest of the world.
Unfortunately the majority of men spend their lives in battle with their individual minds. Some think that they know what they desire, but constantly invalidate or betray themselves and others with their choices.
Others try to convince themselves they are living the life they desire, but constantly need someone or something to help them escape from the fact that they are not fulfilling their life calling. And there are others who are so lost within their minds, they can’t even recognize how they feel because their minds are running their lives.
And then… there is a group of men who want nothing more than to continue to develop the mental discipline to feel content, fulfilled, satisfied and inspired, while consistently enjoying the unlimited dimensions and rewards that come from living this way with the people and choices that matter most to them!
So when I first read that in the U.S. alone we have over 46,500 couples divorced every week, that’s 2.5 million broken homes every year, I felt compelled to dedicate a great deal of my time to such a high calling.
I can’t even imagine what my life would be like, if I didn’t have my family with me every day as an inspiration to become a better man. Therefore I can’t even begin to imagine how devastating this is for any man desperately seeking for answers in a world that doesn’t have them. All the success would mean very little, if no matter how hard you try, you can’t find a way to say what you mean, and mean what you say. And you know what I am talking about.
“Its not what you know, it’s what you become, what makes the difference.”
If your journey has been anything like mine, I know how much it means to find that one mentor that profoundly connects you with the clarity and understanding you are seeking to take your life to the next level by becoming a better man from the inside out. Here is the key, this relationship needs to be built from trust, privacy and confidentiality. I’ll tell you why.
I spent too many years going through a roller-coaster of INACCURATE perceptions, beliefs, feelings, thoughts, impulses and who knows what else. Every time I achieved another material goal, the thrill was gone and the search for a new goal began all over again. After a while, it was depressing. Or every time I made a horrible decision, I had to deal with the guilt, remorse, and the terrible feelings that come from wanting to do things differently, but not being able to figure out how to do it.
What I couldn’t quite understand was that between a threatened ego, and a conditioned mind, I was trapped in a bunch of repetitive patterns. I wasn’t aware that throughout my life I had developed some strong, but false identities within my mind, and they were conditioned to keep me in the same state of being. The last thing in my mind was that I could use my financial resources to get someone to help me with my inner challenges. That is not uncommon with us men and definitely the biggest part of the problem.
“But when people are ready and willing to change, they change. The same way that if they are not, you can’t make them. Or if they are, you can’t stop them.”
Even when I became sober over 26years ago, I did it because I wanted more out of my life than most men I knew, and all that stuff was getting in my way. So even though people thought I was crazy because they didn’t think I had a problem, I was in search of answers that had way more meaning to me personally and spiritually.
I am forever grateful that I made that decision, because I opened myself to some great teachers and mentors who helped me in more ways and levels than I can explain. Finally both of my worlds (inner and outer), became more cohesive.
Thank God that I met Kalyani, because she meant so much to me, she inspired me to work harder than I ever did to transcend what others justified as normal. And once we had kids, I went full force because I knew I had made a commitment to my precious kids for life. A huge part of being a better men, is to be a better husband and a better father. And that journey never ends.
That doesn’t mean I haven’t make bad decisions in the last 21 years since we’ve been together, it means I am FULLY determined and committed to transcending and revealing greater levels of awareness, because I love my family with every part of my being. Not only women feel such a strong bond. Better men can too.
Going back to why you are here. I’m not just talking about finding a mentor that can help you have more success in any particular aspect of your life or to accomplish some material goal alone. Not that there is anything wrong with that. Sometimes that’s exactly what you need to realize that you’re in search of something greater… the better men quest!
But I am talking about helping you reveal deeper realizations, way more valuable and fulfilling. That FEELING of knowing, deep withIN yourself, that you are purposely entering into a level of awareness that surpasses mainstream beliefs, and you are consciously embodying a level of conviction that nothing or no one can ever take away from you… the BETTER MEN FEELING!!!
If you are one of them, let’s work together.
Unleash your potential,
P.S. Kalyani, my wife and I, as a team, also serve a very select one to one clients as needed. You can email me personally – firstname.lastname@example.org if this is the individual attention you’d like.
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