Best Selling Author, Inspirational Success Coach & Real Estate Consultant

“It’s not what you know, it’s who you are, that makes the difference.” – Darsana Roldan

Darsana Roldan Why is it that some people choose to believe what others tell them and others don’t?

Why is it that some people choose to accept a certain lifestyle and others don’t?

Do we truly have the will to choose? And if we do, why not use it for our greatest good and for the best interest of all humanity, animals and the planet?

I am going to tell you the first choice that I made that changed my life forever. Not so you can make the same choices, but with the intention to inspire you to make yours…

At the age of 27, my biggest decision, became my greatest revelation.

Let me tell you why. At the time, although I was continuing to achieve all my worldly goals, which made it even harder for friends and family to recognize I wasn’t living to my fullest potential, I knew deep inside that the drinking and partying was getting in the way. Like anything else before that, I really thought that I would be able to stop the moment I decided so. The truth is that for the first time in my life, I felt defeated.

When you hurt people you care about and then turn around and not follow through with your promises… any other success means nothing. This battle went on for a few years and plenty of lawyers fees. The bottom line is I decided it was time to put myself through a 30 day program. From that day on I have remained sober for over 26 years, but that wasn’t the greatest revelation that I was referring to earlier. The greatest revelation was to self realize that I could overcome anything that my mind told me otherwise.

I suggest you go back and give a tremendous amount of attention to the previous statement. The reason that’s so important is because it took me on a completely different journey. I began to learn and understand our duality. I began to live in the realm of thriving possibilities, instead of struggling in the realm of predictability.

Think about it… According to my mind I couldn’t stay sober, even when I tried very hard to do it. And believe me, I tried. But the moment I went into that clinic I unleashed a potential within myself that I didn’t know I had before. Surprisingly to everyone, I knew then that I would never drink or use again. Not because I couldn’t, but because I didn’t want to.

Just like that? What changed?

I became Self Aware. Obviously not to the degree and level that I am today, but enough to change the direction I was going. I began an inward journey that has profoundly impacted everything in my life.

Instead of looking for ways of how to stay sober like most people I met in that clinic, I left after 30 days determined enough to do anything I wanted, And that meant, I would no longer listen to anyone or anything, including my mind, tell me I couldn’t do something.

I have learned and experienced that the potential of the human heart and brain is widely misunderstood, and grossly underestimated by most people because their minds are continuously responding to previously programmed information.

“You have to leave the city of your comfort and go into the wilderness of your intuition. What you’ll discover will be wonderful. What you’ll discover is yourself.” Alan Alda

Quite often I talk to successful people with great knowledge and intentions, who in their pursuit of happiness, fulfillment and the meaning of life, haven’t yet self realized they are NOT who they believe they are.

Consequently and consistently they live their lives having minimum access to their full potential. Even more important, despite all their worldly success, they can’t quite grasp why they often feel like something is missing at a deeper level.

There is also another group of people, who intellectually know they are not who their mind tells them they are, but yet haven’t revealed their True Self. Unfortunately they live their lives identifying with their minds interpretations as well, with only an occasional glimpse of self awareness.

All of our interpretations are solely based on the internal map of reality that we have, and not our real truth. Our map is a result of our personal life’s collective experiences and beliefs embedded within our brains.

The human brain is a network of approximately over 1 billion neurons. Different experiences create different neuron connections which bring about different emotions and depending on which neurons get stimulated the connections become stronger (or weaker) and more efficient, allowing you to make what seems impossible to others, possible to you.

The possibility we all have is to transcend the INACCURATE beliefs and interpretations we have adopted from others so we can CHOOSE to allow the unlimited potential that we are to naturally flow through all aspects of our lives.

Our inherited nature is to thrive. Nothing that we can humanly do will ever change our essential state. When people say that you are a Spiritual Being having a human experience, that’s very accurate to me. Therefore living an extraordinary life is not hard. What’s hard is living your life from a limited perspective of who you are and your relationship with life itself.

What I have experienced in my own journey is that choosing to be Self Aware is what allows my heart + brain capacity to continue the alteration of neural pathways and connections to my nervous system and that allows a greater amount of this spiritual potential to flow into my human life.

Which brings me to why Kalyani and I believe that it is our legacy to inspire others to unleash their true potential and live their own extraordinary lives. I can’t even imagine what my life would be like if I didn’t have my family with me every day as an inspiration to unleash my own potential. Therefore I can’t even begin to imagine how devastating this is for any person desperately seeking for answers in a world that doesn’t have them. All the success would mean very little, if no matter how hard you try, you can’t reveal a way to intentionally live your own extraordinary life with the people you love the most.

Belief or Curse? the radical Rodans

If your journey has been anything like mine, I know how much it means to find that one mentor that profoundly inspires you to reveal from within the clarity and understanding you are craving. I am talking about inspiring you to reveal deeper realizations, way more valuable and fulfilling, that surpasses mainstream beliefs and will allow you to embody a level of conviction that nothing or no one can ever take away from you.

This is exactly how I will guide you to Unleash Your Potential… let’s work together.


P.S. My wife Kalyani and I, as a team, also serve a very select one to one clients as needed. You can email me personally – if this is the individual attention you’d like.

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